Karla Downing’s warmth and graciousness started the moment she walked into the room. Her personal testimony and clear presentation on her book, 10 Lifesaving Principles for Women in Difficult Marriages, touched the hearts of those women in crisis and enlightened and encouraged those who were not. I strongly recommend Karla as a speaker.

Pennie Crutchfield
MOPS Coordinator,
Mentor Moms
Bible Fellowship Church, Ventura, California

 

We recently had Karla Downing come to our church to help facilitate training to our lay counseling ministry. Karla spoke on the subject of dealing with difficult relationships. Karla is an excellent presenter and kept everyone’s interest with her own story and illustrations. I would recommend her as a speaker to your organization.

Dave Collins
Pastor of Family Life Ministry
Water of Life Community Church

"Our couples thoroughly enjoyed Karla's encouraging, passionate, practical, and biblically-based message at our Valentines Day Dinner."

Bob Koehler
Outreach Base Coach, Cypress Church

"Karla's testimony of her journey to health was compelling and inspiring."

Jim Jones
Celebrate Recovery,
First Evangelical Free Church Fullerton

"Karla has a profound understanding of difficult relationships, providing hope for those who are hurting."

Pantelis Sideropoulos
Director of Family Life, Greece

 


It is with great pleasure that I recommend Karla Downing as a speaker. She was a part of our Women's Weekend Extraordinaire at the Crystal Cathedral. Karla presented from her heart and yet gave great tools for the ladies to implement into their lives. It is obvious that Karla cares deeply about hurting women and has powerful information to help them get un-stuck.

Michelle Cavinder
Director, Women's Ministry
Crystal Cathedral

Karla is part of our lay counselor training team. She delivers a powerful message and a lot of information in a short time. I appreciate Karla’s transparency and the sharing of her personal experience from her difficult relationships. Self-change is necessary to bring about the desired relationship changes in our lives, and her message helps to address how we can do that.

Vickie Maynard
Assistant Pastor Care and Connection
Community Baptist Church

 

“Acceptance: The Key to Contentment” was well received by the women at our retreat. It was a practical and unique way of looking at acceptance that brought new insight and balance to the topic.

Deby Brown
Women’s Ministry
Yorba Linda Friends Church

"Karla is an inspirational and down-to-earth speaker, ministering to the hearts and needs of women."

Carrie Payne
Community Leader, Saddleback Community Church

Nurturing the Nurturer: Finding Biblical Balance in Life and Relationships
30-minute to 60-minute presentation

Women are by nature nurturers, but too often they nurture others and neglect themselves. Being a Christian does not mean you give without limits, tolerate anything, ignore your own needs, and never confront. Both your needs and the needs of others matter, but in order to figure out how to apply this truth, you need to understand some basic scriptural principles.

Acceptance: The Pathway to Peace
30-minute to 60-minute presentation

Energy spent trying to change the things you cannot change is wasted. Acceptance of people, the past, and the circumstances beyond your control frees you to change the things you can, move deeper in your walk with God and others, maximize your potential, and enter God’s rest.

From Ruins to Restoration:A Personal Journey Through Difficult Relationships
30-minute to 60-minute presentation

Karla's journey from childhood to marriage to parenthood has been one of disappointment and pain in difficult relationships. Yet, God in His faithful fulfilling of His purpose for her has restored the ruins to bring glory to His name and hope and healing to others.

The Truth in the Mirror: Finding a Healthy Self-Image
30-minute to 60-minute presentation

Our self-images include the damaged, projected, reflected, stained, and false images each of us carry. We can be set free from our past mistakes, the inaccurate images others have placed on us, useless comparisons, and the unrealistic expectations we place on ourselves. We become “real” when we see ourselves accurately, accept ourselves completely, live transparently, and measure our worth according to God’s values.

How to Really L-O-V-E Your Mate
30-minute to 60-minute presentation

Lost that loving feeling? Love is linked to understanding and acceptance. When people look at the world through their mates’ eyes, they have more compassion, tolerance, acceptance, forgiveness, and grace—all of which results in feeling and acting more loving toward them. Suitable for just women or men and couples.

Living, Loving, and Thriving in a Not-So-Perfect Marriage
45-minute to 60-minute presentation

The only perfect marriage was between Adam and Eve before they sinned. The 10 Lifesaving Principles give people in not-so-perfect marriages practical and scriptural ideas to change their marriages for the better. They include: Understand Scriptural Truths, Reach Out to Others, Change Yourself- Not Him/Her, Detach with Love, Nurture Yourself, Face Your Fears, Speak the Truth in Love, Set Boundaries, Make Your Children a Priority, and Enter God’s Rest.

10 Principles to Transform Difficult Relationships
45-minute to 2-hour presentation

Difficult relationship dynamics are complex whether it is with a spouse, adult child, parent, sibling, or grandparent. This talk enables participants to understand those dynamics, as well as the 10 Transforming Principles that offer scriptural and practical insight on how to deal with these relationships in a healthy and Christ-like way. They include Understand Scriptural Truths, Reach Out to Others, Change Yourself- Not Them, Detach with Love, Nurture Yourself, Face Your Fears, Speak the Truth in Love, Set Boundaries, Offer Forgiveness, and Enter God’s Rest.

Suitable for general audiences, lay counselors, and ministry leaders.

How to Minister to Women in Difficult Marriages
45-minute to 60-minute presentation

Ministering to women in difficult marriages is challenging. This talk provides ministry leaders with insights that enable them to understand the complex relationship dynamics, unique spiritual battles, and common scriptural misunderstandings, and offer practical help with scriptural truths that facilitate hope and healing.

Other topics also available to suit the needs of your group and event.

 
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